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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 23.06.2025 00:19

How does one succeed in life?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Hangs out with loser friends.

How does a 45-year-old man get a girlfriend?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Can you explain the validity of relativity theory? It seems to me to be untrue, as time is universal, and the time is now everywhere.

That's it for today.

Ask yourself:

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Why is my Whirlpool fridge not cooling but the freezer works? What is the solution?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Do not set goals—set systems.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

How come Jesus died on Friday and rose on Sunday? That's not 3 days and three nights.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

What is a good moisturizer and sunscreen for oily skin for a girl like me who is 17?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Procrastinates a lot.

What are some tips to stay young?

Does not procrastinate.

What I need from you?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

How often should you use red light therapy?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):